Red flag
By Meryem Erkan · Published on
A behaviour that is considered a warning sign of a problematic relationship. Originally meant for serious things: control, belittling, overstepping boundaries.
These days the term is used for almost everything, including differences and quirks. That makes it useless, because real warning signs get lost in a long list. Real warning signs are: control, systematic belittling, isolation from your people, and any form of violence.
If you like, I will walk with you a little further.
Every Thursday a letter, written for women, with one thought you can try out in everyday life.
If your relationship involves violence, systematic belittling, control or isolation, this is not a question of communication. In Germany, the violence against women helpline is available around the clock, free and anonymously on 116 016. Elsewhere, please contact your local emergency services or a local helpline.