Mental load
By Meryem Erkan · Published on
The invisible work of thinking ahead, planning and remembering that comes on top of the visible work. Thinking about the shoes getting too small, knowing when the appointment is due, noticing that a present is missing.
This work has no end and no break, and in most families it rests with one person. It cannot be solved by dividing up tasks, only by handing over entire areas of responsibility.
If you like, I will walk with you a little further.
Every Thursday a letter, written for women, with one thought you can try out in everyday life.
If your relationship involves violence, systematic belittling, control or isolation, this is not a question of communication. In Germany, the violence against women helpline is available around the clock, free and anonymously on 116 016. Elsewhere, please contact your local emergency services or a local helpline.