Emotionally unavailable
By Meryem Erkan · Published on
Describes a person who allows closeness until it becomes binding, and then withdraws. Not to be confused with someone who simply has a lot on their plate right now.
The term is used far too freely, often for people who simply express themselves differently from you. It is only useful if the pattern shows up over a longer period and in different situations.
If you like, I will walk with you a little further.
Every Thursday a letter, written for women, with one thought you can try out in everyday life.
If your relationship involves violence, systematic belittling, control or isolation, this is not a question of communication. In Germany, the violence against women helpline is available around the clock, free and anonymously on 116 016. Elsewhere, please contact your local emergency services or a local helpline.